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I suppose I could explain all this to him when he asks if I am upset with him because I am not replying so quickly, but I am nervous about making things weird between us on the project. I saw him once more and he taught me my first trick. He has free accommodation, food, gas, sexy times, meals cooked, washing done etc. I think its not enough to say I dont feel like Im a priority. This sucks. As well as this, I makes me question if he is speaking to other females behind my back again. Dont EXPECT him to show up for it, but try to share it with him a little bit. But hes not very ambitious and is a homebody which Im sure comes from pot smoking, makes u lazy. I understand where you are at with this.. He tells me constantly how much he loves me.. I am like at the I dont know what to do stage right now my boyfriend is not even home because I told him to just leave we got together super fast and since the beginning I noticed that he wasnt affectionate at all but I thought he might be shy but as time passed he still is non affectionate at all! Just stop talking to him and stop making so much effort. I really get frustrated with him often because he does not want to let me go, but yet he can not do what I ask of him. Although weve talked about it many times and although I told him I wanted to go out once a month, he doesnt initiate. But its not ones job to fix me. His mother is mentally ill and they are recently estranged. You deserve to be treated well and loved the way you want to be loved. Communicate with him without fighting. It sounds that you need to work on yourself first. He may not be the person for you. The last year and half has been a struggle just one thing after the other. He Finds Your Attention Diverted. My boyfriend was CEO of the company when I know him, we both were very attracted to each other, but some how we missed the chance. Here are just some of the effects if one partner will fail to pay full time & attention not just with their partner but with the relationship itself. Then we signed our new real lease together and I dont know how we got where we got but he started getting lazy. everything stopped. If you havent been dating long or if your relationship is less than a year old you may not know your boyfriend well enough to determine why he stopped making an effort. His What am I not doing for you now that you want me to do? or Have I not done enough for you? bullsh*t attitude is bringing me to near madness. Maybes its best we leave it and not have to try so hard with the next person. Ive been in same situation. Recently, and at a time where my mental state has been absolute crap and I really needed some comfort, we didnt see each other for about a month and a half. Its confusing because he takes care of me by buying me food and we hangout all the time but theres 0 affection. Losing the Today he also told me that he was not ready to spend so much time on a relationship. Do you want to stay with your boyfriend, just the way he is right now? You wish your boyfriend was as attentive and loving as he was at the beginning of your relationship. He says he loves me but I dont see him actively showing his love. Its been hard but there are better things to come. Just a text. ? he said its his karma for leaving me behind. He cant see his daughter now because his crazy ex wife wont let him. When I asked again the second time I had to remind him since money was tight for the both of us that I wasnt the kind of girl that needed some fancy, expensive date, that if I came home one day and he had a blanket later out in the backyard and some snacks or whatever out for us and we ended up just laying there looking up at the stars the whole time and talking that that alone would be a really good date in my eyes. Unless he drank to much then he was argumentative and yucky. I love him to death, and I know he loves me. Especially since he cant even deliver the bare minimum in this relationship. I leave him love notes and make him dinner all the time and he doesnt match my effort. Stopped fantasies and games and generally sexual desire towards me about 2-3 years ago now, losing track. I love my girlfriend but I never know what to say to her. Meet new people, and make quality friends who youd rather spend time with and make him feel that he is not the ONLY one you have, but a choice you have made to spend some time of your life with. Me and him were in that I rlly like you stage lol. Ive been with my bf for a year & half but we have past history. He goes out at night with his friends when his daughter is staying with him, but uses her presence as a reason not to spend time with me, yet he is happy to do Thanksgiving together. He is using you for everything you got. Communication is not good. Can anyone help me and give me some advice? Hes always been so affectionate towards me, always wanted us to be happy so we got together. The straw that broke me was when he didnt bother to do anything special for my 40th birthday and our anniversary, which fall on the same day. HE ACTED LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. I thought after he quit his job he would have no excuse, but now he just puts even more time into video games. Its just hard because he watches my son while Im at work and my sons dad is working out of town for a month on and a week off. That it was fine even though I was angry but I didnt show him the anger. Day after, he went for work in other city and stayed there for 3months. He did say that we wont be able to talk as much cause theyve got people over and he did apologise before hand but I really cant stand him disappearing during our lil catch-up session to play games,without telling me. The more effort you put in, the harder it will be for you to leave. I get it Im not a good gamer but I like the company. My boyfriend had a terrible marriage and an even worse divorce. Hes just too self-absorbed. and he even told me that her wife cheated on him. Dont end up like me. Thats the one thing that i really expect. I randomly always try to put efforts in the relationship but get nothing in return. maybe its because im his first gf and he doesnt know exactly how to treat one, but it still makes me sad to think that he might not love me that much. No calling. He doesnt pay me a visit at our house- he actually did, 3 times to be exact (there was a celebration in those times). Should I leave? I say I never give advice, but this is one thing I want you to know: you have to build a life outside your relationship with your boyfriend. m tired n dont know what to do anymore! Days have past he ask to have sex with me I really like him and agreed to have just a fun sex. If you feel like hes avoiding you and youve tried to get his attention and it hasnt worked, then dont insist Thats for a few reasons. But things went roughed to both of us.. I just want to feel special!! I envisioned a life time ahead of feeling let down by this person. I kept on wishing the man I met at the beginning of the relationship would show up but he never did. Nothing on either Valentines Day (was REALLY pissed the first year, this year I knew I wouldnt get anything so I didnt get him anything either) and on my birthday, he said that he had a present for me at his house, then later said he had to order it. He gets very quiet and is hard to talk to. I appreciate when he does make effort and try to acknowledge it but it quickly goes away like he doesnt mean it. I dont think what Im asking for is difficult to do that it would take months to see any results. What started as my dream sex life is now I am lucky if we do it once a month and it is usually on his terms, NOT when *I* am in the mood, planned and boring and routine. Best wishes. I feel angry and resentful that going to school took him away from me while he was basically unavailable and busy. Now we seem so disconnected. We then will start to accept crumbs and feel sick inside. He never seems to try, you know. yes, I did reply. I keep trying to tell myself this is just a bad patch until I finish school and get a full-time job again- now that hes finally got a new job and should be happy. HE NEVER CLEANS. to tell you honestly, im the one who makes effort for us to be together because he lives far away from me and i understand his conditon that he cant travel far.. im not a demanding partner all i want is for him to make little efforts to make me feel special and loved. ! And then what we talked about was not set in stone and that things change. I dont deserve this. I tried discussing that with him, he told me if he was to mess up he would want someone to correct him. This is an old post but was wondering what you did? we see each other once a week, he invites me to his place at 9pm only to sleep together. You will be happy, trust me. He is in law school, I am getting my masters, and we also partake in a long distance relationship. Its sad when other give you the compliments that you are looking from in one person. BUT both have to put in the work and if its not happening the work then its not happening and we are settling. Ive thought of letting him go because hes not what I want in a relationship, but hes the only one in this world that knows every single thing thats been in my head. I dont know if you have or not, but try just letting him spill his heart out to you about his feelings. Its been almost two years and weve been inseparable ever since but lately it seems like something has changed. And I dont know whether its that hes worried about his mother as she has totally stopped him from going outside and she stopped him from seeing me before the lockdown was announced. Now, he doesnt put effort. it just makes me sad. He said he was my family and I took that wholeheartedly. Weve been together for over a year but known each other for 8 and its a first serious relationship for both of us. This weekend I went to my sisters house and watched a ball game and the next day went to a movie with a friend. im not sure what to do anymore. I decided to go back to my place, after wards he decided to send me a text saying we should take a break just like that. I love my boyfriend very much but he is so difficult to understand in the morning you will text with much love and in the evening he will tell you I dont know how to love, you deserve someone better who can give you money among others . He has his mum doing everything for him. He has broken up with me three times this year and he never asked for forgiveness. He has lost interest in everything. but is a single text or a goodmorning too much to ask? He is properly dressed and looks fine, just too add. Its now Tuesday, nothing. It could be that your partner is losing interest and doesnt know how to communicate that with you," says marriage and family therapist Lynsie Seely. Is he telling me things just to shut me up or does he blurt things out impulsively. Recently we spoke after time a part and he said hed really change. I asked when he might feel comfortable seeing me again. Let YOU be your super woman! Im in the same exact boat. Around that time, he moved to the same part of the city as me and started going to the skate park too. And, your definition of not making an effort may not match your boyfriends definitionwhich means youre operating from a completely different set of expectations. He always gives excuses such as I just ate and no matter what I still put my pride aside and do it for him. Literally so many times. Rather, letting go is about loosening unhealthy attachments in current and past relationships. Im going to be a junior in a few months and hell be a freshman in college. He is not a bad person, his life I guess doesnt have room for me..This decision has however, broken me, I know it was right but it still hurts I just hope I wasnt expecting too much??? If youre last on your boyfriends list of priorities, then you need to stop wondering what to do when he makes no effort in your relationship. I cant help but feel like he doesnt care as much about me as he used to, as we used to spend more time together before when I was more prioritized. It's also could be a sign your partner is unwilling to prioritize your relationship, communication has eroded, or you're no longer top-of-mind. I get Fridays and the weekend which I use to do an my studying, school work, exercise, self care, etc. I made it to the driveway before I felt so uncomfortable I ran inside to put on jeans and a tee shirt. Maybe you feel grateful when your boyfriend finally decides to stop by at 10 pm, without calling first. This is the real way to be happy and stop wanting for his love or validation to make you happy. Its so frustrating and difficult when you love a man your boyfriend and he doesnt make any effort to see you, love you, or even respect you. But after reading the article I realize that Ive just been complaining but I have never taken out the time to ask him, what a healthy happy relationship looks like to him, what his definition of effort is, or what kind of life does he want us to live, with me planning everything for us or what he wants. It shouldnt have bothered me except the fact he didnt get me one. Now that family is gone and I have to build a new support system from scratch. If every word out of your mouth is an insult, a critique, or disparaging remark, your behavior is toxic and negative, and no one, least of all your S.O., wants to hear it. I am 20 years old, and Ive been on and off with my boyfriend since we were both 13. It takes a lot of patience and time. But in the last month, I have noticed that I am always initiating meeting with him, and he would suggest in the very same day or at the spare of the moment for me to pass by his place and we end up spending 2 hours or so with each other having sex and then I leave because one of us has a commitment. It may be time to reassess your relationship. So currently on the couch drinking a beer, eating leftovers from a 3 days ago (which is humorous because he could have at LEAST heated that up for me) and then all the sudden the dog jumps up at me. Feel so down on a Friday night. You cant control your feelings, but you can control what you say and do. WIth or without them. We had romantic dates and fell in love at first sight. Lets see whats they do. I could write a book about the unfolding sh*t show rollercoaster I worried from that start of meeting the man of my dreams would end up being. I feel stuck, tired and so vary heavy like every step I take is being pulled back by large bricks as everyone else passes by at a much faster rate. However, if my boyfriend was gaming with another girl I would have broken up with him. He is not interested in knowing what my love language is. I asked about the plan we made and he didnt answer he started to be mean to me and not talk and then he hung up on me after saying he wasnt gonna go to hoco with me or prom and that he didnt love me. Not only that sexual favors have been one sided for a long time now. Sometimes even i dont get it,If im asking for too much. I told him 3 times that this has bothered me and he has made no effort to change this. When a guy stops texting you it is likely to I really love this article. There is a lot more to it that Im frustrated about, and recently Ive become I guess depressed about everything in general and find myself thinking about how it used to be and what I miss the most and to be honest all that ends up happening is me ending up crying, falling asleep and it starts all over again. I dont know what else to say about any of it, but I do know that Im getting more depressed by the day. He does not even get up in the morning and brush his teeth, put on deodorant ,etc. When I asked him about it the other day, he just said hes not the type of person, but he clearly us because he has done these things before. Within the past 2 years. Im in the same situation. I know how hard it is to let go, but I think you have to. Then we usually get in an argument and sometimes we break off for about a week. My boyfriend and I both 21 have been dating for almost 3 years and for almost 2 years he has been serving the military back home with only weekends to spare and while I am in Canada studying for almost a year. We just hang out in my house. I dont know what to do. And acts like a concerned boyfriend if I dont immediately respond. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section below! Even when I have my moments he still comes back around. Honestly, I cant feel good about myself because I gave an attention hungry narcissist permission to treat me like crap for 7 years. He just plays it off as nothing serious unless Im breaking down crying. Last week he finally invited me over to his house after not seeing him for almost two weeks when he had his daughter. Now he wants us to not meet more than 2 times per week, even if none of us are working or studying full time at the moment. He wont text me all day till I text him. Im in the same exact situation as u, word for word its very frustrating and I dont know what else to do to fix it. Next day he texted me telling me I looked cute etc. You need to rest your hopes, dreams and future on a love that never fails, a river that never runs dry. I was the one who then initiated contact and although he has apologised he isnt making effort but says he cares for me and doesnt want to hurt me, Im starting to get frustrated about his lack of action still and dont know what to do! Hes a year above me, so he went to the senior high and I still went to the junior high (sophomore and freshman) and he would go out of his way because his school got out earlier, he would walk to the junior high and meet me after school and wed walk home. When you're unpredictable, he'll get more excited when you reach out. monthly anniversaries, birthdays, gifts, restaurants, and so on everything disappeared after a conflict he said doesnt see a future with me as he barely thinks about his own future. He still did not make much of an effort as far as even coming to visit me. Hes talking about going to a rave and doing drugs and asked me to go.Tbh I just think he wants me to pay for everything. for example, yesterday, he gave me a box of chocolates only because his mom made him and i usually have to make the first moves, even if its something simple as reaching out to hold hands. Every time I try to tell him how i feel about him not making an effort in general and on nights out, and social media etc, he usually gets angry/annoyed and makes me feel so bad. But the communication thing has really slowed down. Now I just want to be alone. I just dont know what to do. Let him go! He gets annoyed and sighs and does the What do you want from me now?? I understand law school is a rigorous program but for some reason he has been unhappy and stressed about everything that is going on in his life. Your email address will not be published. Especially when fighting. Im Im confused and at this point I almost miss being just friends because then he would try harder. It was coming across the needle in the haystack that you placed in a way that someone was bound to find it. I said we work on it or we end it. I forgot the bin was being collected and it was due to arrive in a few hours, he didnt take it out. Im so embarassed and devastated plus the sex he didnt touch me but he kiss me but I understand because I only give him minutes. Theres little to no effort. Then, youll know what to do when your boyfriend makes no effort in your relationship. we were back in the honeymoon stage for a few months and then he slowly started resenting me. I love him so much but just dont understand why he doesnt care when I am upset. So I dug in my heels, and he had a stressful day at work, so it ended with him yelling that I was bipolar and he needed a break before I left and he went back to work. Is that just how things are going to go? Theres no dignity or respect in how youre being treated. You can change how you respond to your boyfriend and everything else in your life. X. I know this is a late reply but do you feel like he respects you? Then it was our anniversary two days later.he forgot. Im planning to attend grad school this coming August and I havent manage to get all my stuff in yet because Im busy with my kiddos, house chores and helping him with work. Like by shouting Im gonna get scared or intimated. Around the 5th month, he asked me to be his girlfriend but then he quickly retracted it after realizing how serious we were about to be. Ive mentioned his lack of effort and he did take it on bored but recently Im seeing a slip into his old ways. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months already and up until this day, he is literally showing no effort in our relationship. Even when you are depressed you can do little things, especially if its for someone you love. I just wish he would care more. He has made me realize a lot of my flaws and made me seek my inner self to understand why I am the way I am. Leaving a person you love is one of the hardest things to do. It took him 2 days to notice something. Go out more often, meet new people, make friends, get involved with charity organisations or simply start a class for something you always wanted to do; try a new hairstyle, go shopping, take yourself on dates, go to a beach or a lake and enjoy the sunset (yes alone! She saw me with his hat and questioned me and i told her i got it from my best friend and she knew i was lying but didnt care. I realised hes never going to change, no matter how many times Ive brought it up. This became such an issue that, we fight basically every days I do everything to make his life easier. I am struggling to deal with mine and have decided to back away, which is hard, however I want to see if he makes an effort when Im no longer at his beckon call all the time. We decided to move in together shortly after COVID began so I worked things out with my work and moved to his state. They tell each other they make each other better people. But I needed to know if he still wanted the relationship with me because he has been so distant. I hope things get better. That will show me he doesnt plan on committing for the long haul. We have been together for almost a year. Or also he went out and was feeling confused about the relationship where he didnt come home therefore he ended things in the morning after having a long night prob thinking about it. thats about it. My boyfriend and I started with a lot of stress in our relationship. I knew something was wrong. He regularly bought me presents and he showered me with compliments. I really need an outlet! Doesnt want to go do nothing but work on projects for the house. For the past year and a half he stopped being aggressive after a night out of drinking. We just never did anything like that alone. I love him dearly, but no lie Im confused & I dont like feeling confused. He only got me a childrens bear . Text messages are very slow to respond, I dont text him ten times a day either. He said he was planning on proposing that year. The difference in mine is that he does apologies very often but never changesand I cant keep up anymore, I am simply not happy and not sure what do to do with that, I even doubting myself If I am not the one who is the wrong person. My boyfriend of 7 years had lost interest over the past year, not wanting to see or spend time with me, 3 months now I havent seen him once. Around this same time, I decided to download the dating app bumble to see where it would take me. He will never be that boyfriend ever again. We still work on a project together so its not like I can just cut contact entirely, which I figured might be the reason why he is continuing to text, like he doesnt want things to get uncomfortable between us. Anyways, good luck, and I hope things turn out well for you! Just about two weeks ago, the cycle broke. Then you explain and get everything fyn between you then after like two weeks he will he will give attitude again from no where five minutes he texts with love the other minutes he will text as if he doesnt care . When Your Husband Still Works With His Ex Affair Partner. I suppose its not at all about him but when I have time to think, my mind goes to him. I do far too many things for him. I am right there with you and share very similar feelings. I am often not successful but I realized in the last 1-2 years, it is him. Good luck! Please give me some advice pleaaaase. He forgave me and I eventually moved back. When I ask him (nearly beg him) to do something so simple such as make the bed, I come home at 3 pm from work when he has the day off and the bed, room, everything including him is a mess! Just know youre not the only one feelings this Im not sure what is going on because I confront him about it and he says he just hasnt been on his phone. I feel like Im the only one putting any effort for us to spend time together. But I cant help but read it as a lack of interest, it makes me feel horrible on dates and sends me in a spiral of panic that he is bored of me. They may not come true. If I try to tell him how much I care he insists I dont. There is someone else for you. Keep in mind, he does suffer from depression here and there where he has no energy at times and finds no pleasure in anything. I miss my best friend and I hate that it feels like maybe hes not missing me as much as I do. So thats why he wasnt there and because his board broke. Any thoughts ppl? He is a mental health counselor and I am a registered nurse. He works a lot sometimes so I understand he is tired, but he always wants me to come over his house. He almost kind of agrees to get it over with but nothing changes. Nothing cleaned up, ingredients still on the counter, and not one thing made for me to eat.. and even better, after letting me in the door, not a how was work. Fine, dont come. Its up and down. If you almost never see each other, then sitting down to talk about your relationship or his lack of effort would look much different than if you live together. I met this guy 6months ago we were happy and everything was going well, until last week Friday.He went out with his friends and he came back in the morning. But he appriciate my participation in some kind of sexul things. I had sent him links to little trinkets and gifts. He says sometimes he appreciates me but words mean nothing, actions do. But the good things about that is, by then you honestly love and care about yourself much more than you do love him. He said he is trying to change. My boyfriend made no effort for my birthday and sent me a 2 line email and when I expressed my disappointment didnt speak to me for days. And I know its not healthy to compare your relationships to others but Id be lying if I said I never wish my relationship was more like others. Were both not yet married with our partners since both of our relationship with our partners is not okay. Is Your Boyfriends Mother Ruining Your Relationship? 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